Human Interaction

利人利己 (win/win)
損人利己 (win/lose)
損已利人 (lose/win)
兩敗俱傷 (lose/lose)
獨善其身 (win)
好聚好散 (win/win or No Deal)

"The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People"
"與成功有約"

Power come from

Power is the ability to act.
=> Formal authority
=> Control over scarce resources
=> Use of organizational structure, rules and regulation
=> Control decision process
=> Control of knowledge & information
=> Control of boundaries
=> Ability to cope with uncertainty
=> Control of technology
=> Interpersonal alliances, networks, and control of informal organizations
=> Control of counter organizations
=> Symbolism & the management of meaning
=> Structural factors that define the stage of action
=> The power that one already has

Reference:
Management decisions for engineers by James Parkin p.16-18